Leaves are falling and squirrels are feverishly hustling – that means it is time for school conferences across our nation. It is hard to believe students have been in school for two months already! Fall conferences are an important part of a strong educational foundation. My advice is to take advantage of every moment with your child’s teacher and/or advisor. Developing a solid, productive rapport with teachers is priceless. So how can you make the most of school conferences? Please read on!
CONFERENCES:
*Be on time and ready to partner positively and successfully with your child’s teacher/advisor.
*Strive to be an active listener and remember this is the fall conference – the teachers will be focusing on the student’s adjustment to the new school year both social-emotional and academically.
*The teacher should be describing your child as a learner, as a peer and their work effort during group and individual projects.
*As the teacher describes their work habits and studentship skills, be prepared to share what you see and hear at home. You are your child’s first teachers and your insight is valuable and helpful.
*During your meeting, be respectful, curious and supportive. To have an open, honest dialogue about your child as a student is the goal.
*If your child is attending the conference with you, make sure you lean in and listen to their voice – they should be sharing what has been going well so far and where they may need support or further challenge. What are their personal learning goals for the school year?
*The teacher should be asking, during your conference, how they can best support the student and also are they meeting the needs of the student/family.
*The family should be asking how best you can support your child and the teacher.
The bottom line for school conferences, it is all about a productive and meaningful dialogue between the teacher and family. Each member of the academic team working in concert with the student and their family for a happy and successful school year is the ultimate outcome. If specific plans are needed for your child, ask to have that in writing and set a future date to meet again to check on progress made. Good luck and happy conferencing!
Best,
Laine